Take time for yourself

I little bit confuse actually with the people why do they spend their Saturday night with go somewhere or hang out till drop? When did the 'Saturday night' tradition begin?


Ya i know that saturday night is so precious because it's the only one night when you're free from your routines the day after. But why it become so weird when i'm just alone go to a place? Because when i arrived to a food place, CJ, the waiter asked me "Are you just alone on the Saturday night? There's no one accompany you?" Huff.. And that wasn't the first. I've been asked many times if i go alone.


Not only in Saturday night, but every time actually. People still feel weird when they see someone just waste his time by himself. Don't they know that sometimes we need have a time just for being alone? A time to spend with ourselves?


Some people maybe don't realize that. But i think, being alone sometimes is fun. And i think we need it. Why? Because when you alone, you can use your alone time with evaluate what have happened to your life. Did is because of your mistake? Or because someone's mistake? Did it make you happy? Or desperate? But remember! Don't take too long to think about your past. Because if you take too much time there, you will shrink in your past. Rearview mirror was made just very little because you have to go forward! So use three fourth of your alone time to think about your future. Plan your future well. Move forward!


Why do I told you so hard to move forward? Because if you don't want to walk by yourself, the condition will force you. Maybe your parents, your friends, or your enviroment.
For example, you don't decide what you're gonna be. You don't have your dream, yet. And one day when your mom ask you "Where will you continue your education?" And you just say, "I don't know yet." Don't blame your parents if they force you to enter a university out of your interest. Maybe you like drawing but your parents force you to be a doctor? It's not because they want to force you, but because they worry about your future. And because you go under the pressurre, your job isn't so good. It's just one example if you don't make a plan for your future.


Or maybe with your enviroment? Maybe your parents don't force you and give your freedom o choose. You don't know about your future, and the majority of your friends are doctor? So you just go with them without any preparation. That will be so bad.


So from now, just try to spend your alone time and think about your future. Don't forget! Let God work with you. Discuss your future with God, for He's the only one who knows your best.


You may not know what tomorrow holds, but you may know that GOD holds your tomorrow.